Should I lie?
Well I made a really big mistake this past weekend. I got a little drunk and me and one of my friends kissed...the problem is that the boy I like doesn't like girls that drink and I am afraid he won't talk to me when he finds out...and the whole school like knows somehow and I think it is being blown out of proportion...so I am afraid of his reaction...should I lie to him?
2 comments:
No don't lie-- he'll know you're lying because where there's smoke- there's fire.
Tell him the absolute truth-- you made a mistake and drank, got drunk and kissed a guy and feel bad about both kissing him and drinking.
Ask him to understand and forgive you and promise to not drink again, etc.
The truth might costs you that boyfriend but it will also be better than lying and him constantly asking and accusing you about it, believing as he's accusing you anyway, and calling you a liar which all will eventually break you up anyway-- in the end.
Just be honest with the guy. If he really cares about you im sure he will end up forgiving you and let it slip this time.
Im sure he has done things in the past he would rather not say and we all make mistakes and suffer from them but the most important thing here is that you are who you are and your free to do as you desire and people just have to see that about you and everyone else.
Just don't let it get to you or stress you out. Keep your chin high and tell him straight to his face how sorry you are and how much you like him.
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