I have a best friend that is a girl. She has always been there for me, and helped me when my girlfriend died in a carwreck. I've alway have loved her, and now I'm looking for a new girlfriend and I've realized that I really love her. She has always been there for me, and she is very beutiful, but she is my best friend and says I'm like a brother to her.
This is kind of gross but I'm wondering. Everytime I eat alot, or maybe even a regular amount, I tend to poop alot, like it doesn't all happen at once, it happens several times and it's just little by little. And I've been having alot of gas. I drink alot of Diet Coke and I think I eat alot of things that cause gas, but I'm not sure.
What could this mean? Or does that mean I have a fast metabolism if it's going out so quickly? Help me please, I'm lost :]
This might be a bit long, but I'll try to make it as short as possible. I met the most amazing boy ever, back in June and we were kinda dating or whatever, for a month or so, and we hung out last Friday. I was talking to him on the phone last Sunday and he said he meant to ask me out, but he got nervous even though he knows what I'm going to say-- I'm 16 and he's 18, but school-wise, he's only a grade ahead of me. Anyway, he got in a fight with his dad and his dad took his cellphone away and turned it off, and he banned him from his computer. I haven't talked to him since Monday and I haven't gotten a text from him in 2 days. I'm not worried that he doesnt like me anymore or anything silly like that, but I don't know how long this is going to last. I don't have any means of communication with him at all and it's driving me completely looney. He means the world to me, I'm completely and totally in love with him. I just need ideas on how to stay strong through this. He's the most amazing boy ever, and I don't want to lose him. I don't want him to move back to California with his mom, and leave Texas. That would absolutely kill me. I really need some guidance. Thank you so much!
Okay, so this guy that used to like me said that he doesnt like me anymore ... and he said 'cause he thinks I'm obsessed with him ... but I' not. I was texting him a lot because I was on vacation and was bored. So now he thinks I'm obsessed with him and that's why he doesn't like me. But I want to prove to him that I'm not obsessed and it's just because I was bored that one time. So how can I do that?? And I really want him to like me again.
I am not dumb and I made excellent grades in school, even in math up until ap calculuc, but I am scared to run the cash register at my new job. I feel like I 'm going to make a stupid mistake on the cash register even though I haven't before, and I don't know why. I can't function under pressure. I count just fine in my head when I'm not required to, but when others are around me, numbers don't mix. Do you have any advice for me
So this guy is in one of my classes, and he always looks at me. We would make a good couple, and I think he might like me. What do you think? If you need more info, tell me and I'll email you. I need psychic help, and help from someone wiser than my friends.
NOTE: This is WAY longer than I expected, but I wanted to give you the whole story so you can have a good idea of my situation.
My name is Lyndsey, I'm 17/f, and I live in South Carolina. Up until about three weeks ago (a little less) I hadn't had my first boyfriend, kiss, anything. On Mother's Day this guy I didn't know (but was my age and lived close to me) sent me a message on MySpace. I usually don't answer messages from people I don't know, but for some reason I did. We ended up talking some and I gave him my phone number. We talked on the phone for a couple of days and he asked me out.
The day before the date we met in public (to make sure it was all good) and then the next day we saw a movie and had dinner. We also met each other's parents on that night. We had a great time, he gave me my first kiss, and it was all good from then on out. He told he things he'd never told any of his friend, like that he was a virgin.
I learned a lot about him over the phone and he seemed REALLY into me. We were laying together on his family's boat and his sister said "You never did that stuff with Amanda" (his ex) so I felt pretty awesome. haha. His parents like me and I spent a lot of time at his house for those two weeks. It went further than kissing. We made out, grinded, hand job, blow job, etc. These are all things I NEVER said I'd do with a guy that soon, but it just felt right and I did what I was comfortable with. But he knows and accepted that I wasn't going to have sex with him until I was ready.
On Friday we were laying on his bed together and he told me he LOVED me. Now, I'm not naive enough to think that it really is love. I mean, I love him, but I don't think I can be IN love with him, or vise versa, so soon. As my dad said, he's "in lust" with me. But I did think he really cared about me either way. Well on Sunday he left for California for 2 months to work with his dad. When his mom asked if we had a "no dating other people" policy, he said yes...but that's pretty much all we talked about while he was going to be gone. On the day before he left, he had a party at his house. It was his parents, my parents, one of his guy friends, and a bunch of friends of his parents. Me, him, and his friend pretty much stayed inside alone and he acted different than usual. I got over it because I know how guys are around their friends and he did move closer to me on the couch while we were watching TV and put his arm around me like he always does.
Then as I left the party, we were outside and he gave me this awkward friendship hug even though I wasn't going to see him for 2 months. I was pretty upset about it, but he told me he didn't want to give my dad the wrong idea. I don't know if that was the whole truth, but I moved on.
I haven't spoken to him on the phone since he left. I can't call him because I don't have a number to call and he hasn't called me. I figured he was busy with work and meeting up with old friends, so I tried not to pity myself too much. I've sent him two messages on MySpace and when he responds he seems pretty normal and ends it with "I miss you! Luv ya". I told him if he wasn't busy this weekend that he could call me, but only if he wanted to. He hasn't been online since then, so he hasn't read/responded to the message yet.
I know this could be a question you can't answer, but I'm feeling really insecure. I don't know if he intended to call me the entire time he was there or if he wanted to focus on work. I don't want to ask and sound needy, so I don't know what to do. I just need some type of feedback from him so I know he still likes me as much as he used to, because I know I do.
I know 2 months is a long time (and only 2 weeks of dating doesn't sound strong enough), but I really want us to pick up where we left off once he gets back. I really like him a lot and can't stop thinking about him (yes, I'm becoming like those girls I always ridiculed), but I really want to know how he feels without sounding like I expect him to call me 5 times a day while he's there. I don't, but I just want to know if he's still into me. I will definitely wait for him to get back, but I don't want to wait if he has no intention of continuing our relationship.
Again, I'm sorry this is so long. Thank you for your time.
I need psychic help-- my friend, "S" was taking pictures of my crush today, and I think he knows that we were taking pics of him because he kept looking at us! I feel really, really, retarded right now ... does he hate me? What should I do? My friend likes him, but I know I like him more. And I always thought he liked me. I am so scared he hates me now ...
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Hello, Ask Jr,
Now, I know you said you were a psychic. Well, several times, this person with a strange screen name was IMing me & said some things that most of my friends don't even know. Like what hospital I was born at, and just flat-out weird things.
I don't want to give out my identity, or the screen name [it was on AOL instant messenger] but can you perhaps even find out ANY information about them? They've been the center of my thoughts, so I'm pretty concentrated on it.
If you need any more information, please let me know.
I don't want to get the police involved or anything, but I need to find out who it was. If you can't tell me, I know another psychic.
ANY information. No detail is insignificant.
thank youu!
I have red,curly hair. My hair grows like a snail. I cut my hair to my shoulders 2 1/2 years ago and it has only grown like 1 inch. Anyway, why can't I get it grow any faster? I want really long hair, like mid-back length, like I used to have. Is there a way to get it to grow faster?
Hello there. I noticed on your "about me" heading, you said you were psychic. I was wondering, at what point did you know you were psychic? I've had experiences where I knew what someone was going to say or do-- before it happened. How do you know the difference between being psychic or just being really good a reading people?
I just got out of a 2 year relationship where I was cheated on the whole entire time, so I really do not trust anyone and feel like I can ever be in love again, or be in a relationship. It's been 2 months, and I am sleeping with two different guys that I like. Sometimes it doesn't bother me because I assume the worst, and that their doing the same thing too, but sometimes I feel bad because they really like me and both want to be in a relationship with me. But I'm the worst person to be in a relationship right now, because my ex has turned me into a horrible person. I wouldn't have seen me doing this to someone before, but it's like I don't give a sh*t anymore. I feel like there's no point being in a relationship because you can like more than one person anyway. The relationship may seem perfect at first, and that's all you wanna do is be around that person, but everything gets old after a while and people change--for the worse. Nothing lasts forever. And that is the reason why I dont believe in love, because you can always find someone else that tempts you and makes you curious about them and then you become unfaithful. Everyone cheats and everyone lies. So right now I feel like im playing a game, and part of me feels bad about doing that to those 2 guys, but the other part of me thinks ..." hey ... I'm single and were not together, so it doesn't matter if I'm sleeping with someone else. I want to know other people's opinions on this ... has anyone else been in the same situation? If so ... what do you think is the best thing I should do? Because I never was trashy and I'm still not. I just really like both these guys and I can't choose between them, and I'm not even sure I want to be committed ...
Could you tell me all I need to know about tanning? ... How much it costs, how much should do it for when I first begin... and I know about the skin cancer, and I know to use tanning lotion or sun screen, but what should I do?
Okay, so I have a big problem. I was dating a guy who was 22/m and I'm 16/f. And I noticed on myspace, some girls started commenting him. He would comment about their pics, telling them that they're beautiful. and he commented that my pics, saying the exact same thing. I thought that was kinda weird and I told him that I didn't like him telling other girls that. I have a feeling he's with another girl. I broke up with him. This happened 3 times, but this time when I broke up with him, he said that he didn't want to talk to me ever again and I was hurt. I wanted to know if it right that I broke up with him, because he seemed like a player, or was I just over-reacting and got a little bit jealous?
My hair basically consists of thick, medium-long curls. I don't normally wear it down because in some places, it's poofy. My friends tells me all the time that my "shiny," thick hair, would be so gorgeous if I found a way to control the "poof." (Almost her words exactly)... So I've tried hairsprays, gels, and different shampoos, and conditioners, but none seem to help. What can I do?
3 years ago my best best best friend moved half way across the country. We still managed to stay the best of friends, and got to visit each other a couple times. Then a year later, she moved back a couple states away and I was so happy! We got to see each other all the time because it was only a few hours away. We called each other everyday and always had stuff to talk about no matter what. We were the ideal best friends. We have never been in a fight. We tell each other EVERYTHING and were always there no matter what. Well lately, we havent been talking much. Yes, it's summer and were both busy, and we kept missing each other's calls, and now we hardly even talk. And when I do call her, there isn't much to talk about. It seems weird or something. I'm so afaid that we're growning apart. I don't know what I would do witout her. I don't want to loose her, she means more to me than my family. What should I do?
I have 2 questions about a song ...
1)Whats the meaning of the song 'Cornflake Girl' by Tori Amos?
2)Is Tori Amos bad???
Thank is advance!
I get really mad at my mom sometimes. Like today, my friend came over since she had to borrow a cup of baking soda, since they were baking cookies. They're more family friends, so we visit each other alot. She invited me to come over there too, and I got all ready and stuff, cleaned my room, took a shower, and i've been doing lots of things like helping with my baby brother, and stuff like that. Then I asked my mom if I could go to their house after doing all that and she said "NO"! I'm freakin' 13 years old, in a nice suburban neighborhood where nothing bad ever happens. It's daytime and people are outside mowing their lawns, walking their dogs, riding their bikes, normal stuff like that. And my mom still says "NO"! Alot of times when I wanna go over there, she says "no" and I ask her why not, and she never tells me why! She's sleeping right now since she works at night. Before she asked what if something bad happened to me... What the heck? I've been allowed to go all around my neighborhood since I was 8 years old, but it feels like now that I'm 13, she has to be more protective over me! What the heck? I tried everything and she was really mad at me when I kept asking her to go. I hate this-- she never explains why! Also for sleepovers, it's the same. She thinks "something will happen to me." I mean I'm not retarded, something could, but I dont want to waste my whole childhood without going to one of my friend's sleepovers (she doesnt want one at our house either, cause she doesnt want responsibility over other peoples kids... I mean its not like we're gonna go burn the house down!) but she's like "no," 'cuz it's her "African custom." My dad says the same too. It's so retarded. We can only sleep over at family's houses so that's not really like a sleepover. Anyway, on the subject, how can I get her to trust me more? I'm a smart girl and my friend lives near in my neighborhood, like 3 minutes away from my house by foot. And I really wanted to help them make the cookies... geez. Lots of kids my age visit their friends all the time, but my mom just wants to confine us in our house alot!!! I hate that. I barely ever get to visit my friends or go out with them to places like the movies, bowling, the mall, etc. UGHHH! I can't even go on vacations, or to theme parks with them, and their families! I mean, family is good too, but I'm just really, really, pissed right now, because I'm freaking bored.
I get really mad at my mom sometimes. Like today, my friend came over since she had to borrow a cup of baking soda, since they were baking cookies. They're more family friends, so we visit each other alot. She invited me to come over there too, and I got all ready and stuff, cleaned my room, took a shower, and i've been doing lots of things like helping with my baby brother, and stuff like that. Then I asked my mom if I could go to their house after doing all that and she said "NO"! I'm freakin' 13 years old, in a nice suburban neighborhood where nothing bad ever happens. It's daytime and people are outside mowing their lawns, walking their dogs, riding their bikes, normal stuff like that. And my mom still says "NO"! Alot of times when I wanna go over there, she says "no" and i ask why and she never tells me why! shes sleeping right now since she works at night. before she asked like what if something bad happened to me.. what the heck? ive been allowed to go all around my neighborhood since i was like 8 years old, but it feels like now that im 13, she has to be more protective over me? what the heck? i tried everything and she was really mad at me when i kept asking her to go. i hate this she never explains why! also for sleepovers its the same. she thinks "something will happen to me". i mean im not retarded, something could, but i dont want to waste my whole childhood without going to one of my friend's sleepovers (she doesnt want one at our house either, cause she doesnt want responsibility over other peoples kids.. i mean its not like we're gonna go burn the house down!) but shes like "no, cuz its her african custom". my dad says the same too. its soo retarded. i mean we can only sleep over at family's houses so thats not really like a sleepover im thinking of. anyway, on the subject how can i get her to trust me more? im a smart girl and my friend lives near, in my neighborhood, like 3 minutes away from my house by foot, about. and i really wanted to help them make the cookies.. geeeez. lots of kids my age visit their friends all the time but my mom just wants to confine us in our house alot!! i hate that. i barely ever get to visit my friends or go out with them to places like the movies, bowling, the mall, etc. UGHHH i cant even go on vacations on them, or to theme parks with them and their family! i mean family is good too but im just really really pissed right now cause im freaking bored.
In the movie, 'A Cinderella Story,' where Hilary goes to the Fall Ball and she enters, a song plays titled, 'Best Day of My Life.' Everywhere I've looked had a version of this song by Jesse Mccartney, even the soundtrack; but he isn't the one singing in the movie. Does anyone know who is singing the song in the movie, and where I can find a place to download the song? Thanks!
I'm 22 years old. When I was 19, I got married and my husband and I decided to have a baby. Well, I had a miscarriage. I was devastated, but I decided to try again. Well, my husband and I split up for various reasons, and I was engaged to another guy. I got pregnant again, and later had another miscarriage. I started to feel extremely scared, so I went to my doctor and asked him what was wrong. He told me that it was just a flaw and that I could conceive a baby. So I tried again. About 5 months ago I became pregnant with twins. I just lost one of the twins, and I'm ready to sue the doctor. I guess what I'm asking is, can I sue him, and will I ever be able to conceive my own child? And what should I do about this baby?
Well I made a really big mistake this past weekend. I got a little drunk and me and one of my friends kissed...the problem is that the boy I like doesn't like girls that drink and I am afraid he won't talk to me when he finds out...and the whole school like knows somehow and I think it is being blown out of proportion...so I am afraid of his reaction...should I lie to him?
It's really obvious that my guyfriend has a crush on me, but I dont like him - I like his friend.
He said that he will tell me who he likes "later" when we talk on an instant messenger.
Well, I dont know whether to go on or not later because I dont want him to say he likes me because I dont like him.
Please, any suggestions? And I know he likes me and not anyone else.
I saw a question about how to get guys to notice a girl at a mall for instance (asked by a girl), and I was wondering how to get girls to notice me in a public place. Say like a mall for instance. And if I feel that I should approach a girl, what is a good way to get into a conversation and not make a fool of myself ?
I'm 16/m by the way (17 in june)
Has anybody ever used Sun-In brand hair lightener spray? Does it work well?
I'm going to AZ for a week and I think I may want to use it while im tanning and outside.
Thanks! :]
I got my period very late... so my boyfriend thinks that I am pregnant. We went to the clinic five times and I took five urine tests. They all came out negative. I am really scared because my stomach is getting bigger than it was. After that clinic that I took five urine tests at, I went to a different clinic. When I took another test, it came out negative too. Does this means that I am not pregnant? Or the test is just messing up and wrong? I've been hearing that the urine test is not accurate and also the blood test aren't either. I dont know what to do. They won't let me have a ultra-sound so I know if it's in there or not. Can you tell me... if im pregnant or not. I am really scared and I dont want to have a baby.
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